Theory of Change:

Addressing the Impact of Neuronormative Social Constructs on Neurodivergent Adults

Problem Statement

Neuronormative societal constructs—the implicit expectation that everyone should think and behave in a neurotypical manner—create systemic barriers for neurodivergent adults. Neurodivergent individuals, including those with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), ADHD, dyslexia, sensory sensitivities, other cognitive differences, and various communication styles, often experience challenges in social interaction, communication, and sensory processing that are not accounted for in these societal norms.

These neuronormative structures limit social opportunities for neurodivergent adults in multiple ways:

Social Stigma & Misunderstanding: Many social norms favor neurotypical behaviors, leading to the exclusion or misinterpretation of neurodivergent communication styles. This makes it difficult for neurodivergent adults to form and maintain meaningful relationships.

Workplace & Community Exclusion: Social success is often tied to unwritten neurotypical expectations (e.g., small talk, eye contact, and group participation), creating barriers to professional networking and community engagement.

Masking & Burnout: Many neurodivergent adults engage in masking—suppressing their natural behaviors to fit in socially—which is mentally exhausting and contributes to isolation when they cannot maintain the effort.

Lack of Neurodivergent-Centered Social Spaces: Most social programs are designed for neurotypical interaction styles, failing to offer inclusive environments where neurodivergent adults can connect authentically.

Additionally, neurodivergent adults with developmental disabilities, such as those with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), face a reduction of services after the age of 21, called “The Service Cliff”. While some programs exist, they often take a one-size-fits-all approach that disregards the unique needs of neurodivergent adults, leading to further social isolation and systemic ableism.

Supporting Data

19% of the adult population in the United States identifies as neurodivergent

(YouGov, 2024)

5.4 million adults in the United States have been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder

(CDC, 2023)

68% of autistic adults report feeling lonely or socially isolated, compared to 30% of the general population

(Autism Research Centre, University of Cambridge)

Our Philosophy | Theory of Change

At Especially Everyone, we believe purpose, human connection, and overall individual well-being can be achieved through the power of music and community. We advocate for sensory-friendly, inclusive concert experiences for people of all abilities in support of creating accessible social environments for neurodivergent adults. Especially Everyone leverages our experience in music, concert production, and various therapeutic disciplines to advocate for and facilitate environments where people of all abilities can connect, thrive, and belong as part of a vibrant community.

Standing by the ‘nothing about us without us’ principles, we are committed to ensuring our work reflects the authentic, neuroformative voice of our community. All programs, voice, language, and initiatives are co-created, reviewed, and approved by our ‘Our Voice Committee’ before publishing.

Through the creation of fully inclusive spaces centered around music, we provide neurodivergent adults with:

Safe and welcoming environments for social interaction, friendship-building, and self-expression without judgment or pressure to conform.
Opportunities to connect authentically without the barriers of neuronormative social expectations.
A vibrant community that values neurodiversity and fosters long-term, meaningful relationships.

Theory of Change Model

If we challenge neuronormative societal constructs and create inclusive social environments,
Then neurodivergent adults will have greater access to authentic social opportunities,
Which Leads To increased friendships and relationship experiences, reduced isolation, and overall well-being.

By redefining what it means to connect and belong, we ensure that neurodivergent adults find their tribe and thrive in a world that values neurodiversity.